Presenting at Ignite NYC Tonight
Tonight I’m showing my geeky (but still dirty) colors at Ignite NYC. Here’s a repost of info about the event:
On September 15th we will have 10 Ignite speakers who each get just five minutes on stage. Bre Pettis, the other co-creator of Ignite will be hosting a cupcake decorating contest. Ignite is going to be […]
Amsterdam Photo Fun
Amsterdam and the Pinched festival were ridiculously fun and amazing. i have some more thoughtful posts in the works about the people and the ideas I spent time with during my time in Amsterdam, but for now, let’s kick things off with some photos - and one video. I have more video on the way: […]
Adventures in Amsterdam!
In twelve hours, I’ll be on a plane to Amsterdam and a total sex nerd extravaganza! I have a big pile of work to do before I go (eep), but I’m SO looking forward to getting out of New York for a while.
I’m going to Amsterdam for the Pinched festival, where I’m giving a […]
Pro, Anti, and WAM anxiety
I think it definitely says something about the state of feminism and my personal relationship to feminism that the speaking engagement I’m getting most stressed about this spring is my workshop at the Women, Action and the Media conference in Boston at the end of this month. I’m doing a 90 minute workshop called “Sex […]
I’m GayVN bound!
[The Bi Apple tailer, for the uninitiated and for the nostalgic]
On Friday morning, my boyfriend and I are getting up nice and early (or maybe not sleeping at all, we’ll see) and flying to San Francisco for the GayVN Awards. We’re treating it as something of a “vacation,” complete with hotel stay and dining out. […]
The Twitter Back Channel to Sex::Tech
Though initially I resisted it, I have grown to love the fuck out of Twitter. For the most part, I use it to keep tabs on friends who are all over the place, doing different but (sometimes) interconnected things. When I was in Vegas a few weeks ago, I used it to keep up with […]
Sex::Tech - Generation Gaps
I’ve been in San Francisco since late Monday night for the purpose of attending and speaking at the Sex::Tech Focus on Youth conference. Maybe I’m a total hardass, but there were a lot of sessions that had the sex tech part down but didn’t have anything to do with youth, which was kind of puzzling. […]
AEE 2008: Day 5 - The Grand Finale
I am at the airport, writing a last minute blog post before I get on the plane and head back to NYC and holy fuck, I cannot wait to get out of Las Vegas. I hate this place with a white hot passion that starts out as an ironic distaste upon arrival and erodes into […]
AEE 2008: Day 4 - Unphoto’d Irony
I decided that I would spend Friday morning in the business to business area of the convention, which is pretty much all sex toys and nice people. It’s also limited to industry folks, and there aren’t really any porn stars present, so comparatively, it’s a quiet oasis in the midst of porno madness. I spent […]
AEE 2008: Day 3 - Porno Immersion
I must interrupt your regularly scheduled AEE updates to give you the news that The Bi Apple was one of four films nominated for the GayVN award for Best Bisexual Video. Buck Angel’s “Buckback Mountain” got nods for Best Specialty Release and Best Alternative Release, which is historic and awesome, because he’s a man with […]


