Waking Vixen » News http://www.wakingvixen.com Audacia Ray\'s Adventures in Smart Sex Culture Tue, 08 Jul 2008 17:15:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 en © dacia@wakingvixen.com () dacia@wakingvixen.com() 1440 Audacia Ray\'s Adventures in Smart Sex Culture dacia@wakingvixen.com No no http://wakingvixen.com/wvp144144.jpg Waking Vixen http://www.wakingvixen.com 144 144 Naked City: a Village Voice blog about sex http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/04/07/naked-city-a-village-voice-blog-about-sex/ http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/04/07/naked-city-a-village-voice-blog-about-sex/#comments Mon, 07 Apr 2008 20:12:18 +0000 Audacia Ray http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/04/07/naked-city-a-village-voice-blog-about-sex/ I am newly gainfully employed, and it’s pretty much my dream job: I’m editing a brand spanking new sexuality blog for Village Voice Media. It’s called Naked City, and it went live this morning.

I know it seems like I have a hundred million different projects - and I do. Naked City, however, takes top billing (though at the moment it’s part time so I have some room for other stuff). Because it’s a paid gig, it will give me the opportunity to cover sexuality in a much more in depth, consistent, and wide-ranging way than I do through my other outlets. It also means that my coverage in other places will be a little more sparse, but I’m excited to deliver cool stuff on Naked City that will complement the other sex media that is already online.

Naked City’s main beat is New York, as that’s the home of the Village Voice and I’m shamelessly New York-centric, but I’ll also be taking it with me when I travel to far away (and not so far away) lands. For instance, I’ll be reporting on Sex 2.0 in Atlanta this coming weekend.

So far I’ve got four posts up, and over the next week I’ll be adding a variety of columns and features to the blog. We figured that leaping in and sorting it out while the blog is live isn’t the worst thing in the world. Feedback is welcome.

One of the things I’m most excited about doing is Naked City TV, a weekly video show which will document and explore the personal and professional lives of people for whom sexuality is central. I’ve got some interesting stuff shot, some interesting stuff planned, and I’m also totally open to suggestions. I’m producing, shooting, and editing the show as well as doing the interviews, and I take issues around media representations of sexuality very seriously (as you probably know if you’ve read my blog for more than a day or two).

Here’s a taste of Naked City TV. This episode is about The Porno Jim Show, which is currently running every other Saturday at the Producer’s Club Theater. And head on over to Naked City to see today’s posts on rude rejection letters erotic artists get, a panty design contest, and my picks for sexy events happening in New York this week.

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Sex 2.0 April 12th in Atlanta - Audacia gives keynote http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/04/07/sex-20-april-12th-in-atlanta-audacia-gives-keynote/ http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/04/07/sex-20-april-12th-in-atlanta-audacia-gives-keynote/#comments Mon, 07 Apr 2008 05:22:19 +0000 Audacia Ray http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/04/07/sex-20-april-12th-in-atlanta-audacia-gives-keynote/ Sex 2.0 will focus on the intersection of social media, feminism, and sexuality. How is social media enabling people to learn, grow, and connect sexually? How is sexual expression tied to social activism? Does the concept of transparency online offer new opportunities or present new roadblocks — or both? These questions, and many more, will be addressed within a safe, welcoming, sex-positive space.

Respecting the confidentiality and protecting the identities of participants who wish to maintain a degree of anonymity will be a top priority at Sex 2.0.

I will be delivering the keynote talk for Sex 2.0 bright and early in the morning - at 9.15 (roughly) on the nose.

Other presenters include Regina Lynn, Melissa Gira, Rachel Kramer Bussel, Renegade Evolution, and many others!

When? April 12, 2008
Where? 1763~A Deviant Place of Decadence, 1763 Montreal Circle, Tucker, Ga., 30084 (directions)
How much? $50

REGISTRATION IS MANDATORY. We will not be taking any walk-up registrations at the door.

At Sex 2.0, everyone is a participant rather than a passive attendee. This is YOUR event!

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Curious about sex work? Participate in SexWork101.com http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/04/01/curious-about-sex-work-participate-in-sexwork101com/ http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/04/01/curious-about-sex-work-participate-in-sexwork101com/#comments Tue, 01 Apr 2008 18:01:59 +0000 Audacia Ray http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/04/01/curious-about-sex-work-participate-in-sexwork101com/ Sex Work 101 was inspired by conversations that happened during the Women, Action and the Media 2008 conference held in Cambridge, MA from March 28-30, 2008.

I gave a talk at WAM called Sex Workers and Media Representation (click to see notes for the workshop), and questions during and after the talk made me realize that many people are curious about the sex industry and want to support sex workers in their struggle for rights, but they have no idea where to start. This site is an attempt to fill that gap in public education in an approachable, easy to understand, and engaging way - it’s also the first public education project from Sex Work Awareness, a new non-profit in NYC founded by four $pread staff members. Sex Work 101 is meant to add to public knowledge about sex work and to encourage discussion about the issues sex workers face.

Participate in Sex Work 101! I’m looking for questions non-sex working people want answered and their perceptions of/thoughts about the industry, as well as posts from sex workers who want to share stories about their work (a day in the life, how I got into the industry, reposts from personal blogs, etc)

The official email for the site is ask[at]sexwork101.com but people can also email me at dacia[at]wakingvixen.com. I’d also love to hear from people who want to help with the site - writing posts, answering questions, etc.

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You need an official Waking Vixen sex nerd t-shirt http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/26/you-need-an-official-waking-vixen-sex-nerd-t-shirt/ http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/26/you-need-an-official-waking-vixen-sex-nerd-t-shirt/#comments Wed, 26 Mar 2008 19:27:50 +0000 Audacia Ray http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/26/you-need-an-official-waking-vixen-sex-nerd-t-shirt/ I’m very excited to announce that I know have official Waking Vixen tee shirts available, yay! I’m using AlertPay instead of PayPal - it’s a little clumsy but more adult-friendly than PayPal. If you prefer to pay by check, email store[at]wakingvixen[dot]com and I’ll let you know what to do.

girlynerdtshirtPRICE

Designed by the lovely and amazing Joy Rumore, my totally awesome tattoo artist - have a look at her portfolio: The Milkmaid, her shop in Williamsburg: 1228 Tattoo, and her blog (with examples of recent work).

Girl shirts come in medium and large Bella girly tees, dude shirts come in large and XL Galdin tees - both are printed by my friends at High Voltage Customs here in the fine city of New York.


Click here to buy girly medium

Click here to buy girly large
Click here to buy men’s large
Click here to buy men’s XL

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Sex Workers and Media Representation, my talk at WAM in Cambridge, MA on 3/29 http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/24/sex-workers-and-media-representation-my-talk-on-wam-in-cambridge-ma-on-329/ http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/24/sex-workers-and-media-representation-my-talk-on-wam-in-cambridge-ma-on-329/#comments Mon, 24 Mar 2008 14:27:38 +0000 Audacia Ray http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/24/sex-workers-and-media-representation-my-talk-on-wam-in-cambridge-ma-on-329/ Women, Action and the Media. March 28-30, 2008 in Cambridge, MA. Saturday, March 29th 4:00pm-5:30pm:
Sex Workers and Media Representation
Sex workers and the sex industry are frequent topics in the media, whether as the center of a sex scandal, the subject of an expose, or as the source of discussion around sexuality and morality. This session, led by a former sex worker and editor of $pread magazine, is a combination of media analysis and brainstorming on ways to affect change in the ways sex workers are represented in the media. Anyone interested in sex workers rights, challenging mainstream media, and DIY new media is encouraged to attend.

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Freedom Story: Overcoming Sex Addiction 3/24 at 7 pm in Brooklyn http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/24/freedom-story-overcoming-sex-addiction-324-at-7-pm-in-brooklyn/ http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/24/freedom-story-overcoming-sex-addiction-324-at-7-pm-in-brooklyn/#comments Mon, 24 Mar 2008 13:50:12 +0000 Audacia Ray http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/24/freedom-story-overcoming-sex-addiction-324-at-7-pm-in-brooklyn/ I’ll be on this panel this evening….

MONDAY, MARCH 24TH @ 7PM
Freedom Story: Overcoming Sex Addiction
A forum highlighting socio-political themes of Aurin Squire’s new play.
The Audre Lorde Project
85 South Oxford Street
Fort Greene, Brooklyn

Inside a sex-phobic U.S. society and within a sex-positive queer community, the individual who defines his or her own personal sexuality is a brave freedom fighter. Freedom Train Productions is proud to host this discussion around the socio-political themes within Aurin Squire’s new work.

As is our custom, there will be an open and democratic dicussion where experts and academics, sex-perts and sex-positives, and plain old folks who have something to say all will have a chance to do exactly that.

This is a part of Freedom Train Productions’ Offstage Series. Aurin’s new play will be featured at Fire! New Play Festival 2008 in August.

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On the Brian Lehrer show talking about prostitution http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/11/im-on-the-brian-lehrer-show-this-morning-at-1140/ http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/11/im-on-the-brian-lehrer-show-this-morning-at-1140/#comments Tue, 11 Mar 2008 14:30:59 +0000 Audacia Ray http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/11/im-on-the-brian-lehrer-show-this-morning-at-1140/ *EDIT*

Here’s the MP3!

If you’re interested in tuning in, I’ll be discussing whether or not prostitution should be legalized. Also on the show will be Emily Bazelon, who has a piece up on Slate this morning titled Why is Prostitution Illegal?

Click here for the show - it’s WNYC 93.9 FM in New York.

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Sex Work, Trafficking, and Left Politics panel at the Left Forum, 3/16 at 3 pm http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/10/sex-work-trafficking-and-left-politics-panel-at-the-left-forum-316-at-3-pm/ http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/10/sex-work-trafficking-and-left-politics-panel-at-the-left-forum-316-at-3-pm/#comments Mon, 10 Mar 2008 19:08:32 +0000 Audacia Ray http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/10/sex-work-trafficking-and-left-politics-panel-at-the-left-forum-316-at-3-pm/ Sex Work, Trafficking, and Left Politics: Towards a New Vision on Prostitution and Justice. March 16th from 3 to 5 PM. at the Cooper Union, 30 Cooper Square. NY NY. Part of the Left Forum
This panel will unite sex workers rights’ activists and professional intellectuals working on queer theory, feminism and progressive sexual politics to discuss the relationship between sex work and the Left.
Audacia Ray – $pread Magazine
Elizabeth Wood – Nassau Community College
Amber Hollibaugh – Senior Strategist, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force
Moderator: Antonia Levy – Graduate Center, CUNY

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Porn: Made in New York - 3/11 at Babeland http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/05/porn-made-in-new-york-311-at-babeland/ http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/05/porn-made-in-new-york-311-at-babeland/#comments Wed, 05 Mar 2008 08:17:45 +0000 Audacia Ray http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/05/porn-made-in-new-york-311-at-babeland/ Tuesday, March 11, 2008 08:00PM, at Babeland, 94 Rivington Street. FREE.
Meet some of the most exciting NY-based filmmakers, including adult film pioneer, Candida Royalle, and Venus Hottentot, director of “Afrodite Superstar”. They will talk about what makes a sex scene hot, how to incorporate lights, costumes and dialogue into your everyday sex life, and how to f*ck like a porn star! LES (Rivington) store.

I’ll be there too!

More info is on the Babeland site.

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At Hot Movies for Her: The Bisexual Question http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/04/at-hot-movies-for-her-the-bisexual-question/ http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/04/at-hot-movies-for-her-the-bisexual-question/#comments Tue, 04 Mar 2008 16:16:35 +0000 Audacia Ray http://www.wakingvixen.com/blog/2008/03/04/at-hot-movies-for-her-the-bisexual-question/ My March column at Hot Movies for Her is about biphobia in porn.

I was not a porn consumer or seeker when I was a teenager. Though I was sexually precocious and promiscuous in many ways, porn wasn’t really on my radar. In fact, when a high school friend found me on MySpace recently and discovered that I’d become a porn director, he was pretty surprised. But since I’m a bit of an extremist, when I began to explore porn, I really did it up. And I wanted to find porn that was like me – bisexual.

At my first job in sex, I lucked into a treasure trove of porn with obsessively categorized videos, magazines, and mementos: the Ralph Wittington Collection at the Museum of Sex. I started as a researcher at the Museum and then became an assistant curator the year it opened – and in addition to jump-starting my career as a sex nerd, being exposed (ahem) to the wealth of smut in the Wittington collection plus meeting a delightful array of sex industry legends got me started on my own personal journey.

Among the carefully labeled boxes that contained videos in plastic archival boxes, polaroids of enthusiastic collector Ralph Wittington with a variety of stars, and a smattering of creepy flesh-colored sex toys was a box labeled “bisexual.” The contents were a bunch of Paul Norman films – the “Bi and Beyond” series that kicked off in 1988. The late 1980s through the mid-1990s were apparently the heyday for bisexual porn – if a heyday can be considered somewhat prolific production from one director.

Click here to read the whole article.

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