Balls

Hi Dacia,

I’ve never been a big fan of most kinds of ball stimulation. Mine are just too sensitive to pressure, and it’s very easy to apply too much. Also I’ve had two vasectomies and one reversal and that’s added problems with tugging as well as squeezing.

Lest you think I’m complaining (ok, I am a little) when someone knows what she’s doing it feels heavenly to have them hefted, tickled, and especially lightly scratched when they’re tight and I’m about to come. Mmmm, women who like balls!

Ball trivia: I’ve pressed or bumped a couple of partner’s ovaries during intercourse and their reactions have been identical to mine when my testicles are bumped.

It’s really surprising how easy it is to shave them, by the way. I don’t think I’d use a one-bladed Bic, unless they’ve changed a lot, but gel shaving cream and something like a Track III or the Venus sister product works very well. And, like other pubic hair, once it’s off it’s easier to keep shaving (touch up takes less than a minute in the shower) than it is to grow it back. Growing it back prickles and itches, but it does knock a minute off your shower time. :-)

Thanks for the ball appreciation post, Dacia.

I’m almost disappointed you didn’t give in and toss a pun or two around. ;)

I think one MAJOR factor in how men respond to having their balls fondled is the type underwear they wear, if any. Balls confined by restrictive briefs have to “breathe” a while before they have the same level of feeling as balls in boxers that are more free to roam.

At least, that’s been my experience.

-G

My balls have distinctly different reactions to touch. My left nut is more likely to interpret touch as discomfort or pain, while my right nut will respond to the same sort of touch as pleasure. This makes fondling the entire package an interesting cocktail of sensation.

-T.C.

Reading your interpretation on testicular pleasure was very interesting to me. You may be surprised to know that not knowing what to do with balls is not something that only affects women. Take masturbation, for example. Most guys can do very little with their balls when they jerk off. Aside from cupping them or letting them hang loose, there really isn’t much more to do with them. Fortunatelly there are women like you who understand and appreciate balls. And a tip, the most sensitive skin is the one between the balls, where the scrotum looks like it was sown shut.

Damn you’re one hottie I’d love to have in my bedroom! love your blog…but I love your photos more!

Bumped their ovaries? Are you sure you don’t mean cervix? And I can’t speak for other women, but that does NOT feel good when it happens to me…

I’ve always enjoyed having mine played with, both during oral sex and intercourse. I find having my scrotum squeezed gently just as I am about to orgasm increases the intensity and pleasure.

Three cheers, er, two cheers for balls. I too love the feeling of the balls slapping during intercourse. Front or back. And the way my husband’s balls go really, really hard when he’s about to cum. They morph into these completely different creatures. He shaves them every day and yet, I’ve never sucked or licked them. This must be rectified asap. As always, I really enjoy your writing.

Personally, I LOVE having my balls slowly massaged after sex, when they’re nice and loose…after completely spoiling a woman, I love to just lay on my back and let her slowly massage them with her hand and/or mouth….Hmmmmmmm.

“Bumped their ovaries? Are you sure you don’t mean cervix?”

With one I’m certain it wasn’t her cervix because she liked having hers bumped, but didn’t at all like it when she shifted to one side and I bumped into what she said was an ovary. She explained that a) hers weren’t very deep and b) in certain positions she always had to be careful not to get them bumped but sometimes got carried away. I took her word for it, and when it happened again with other partners I assumed it was the same sort of thing. (Not that it’s a good idea to assume and I’m happy to stand corrected.)

Perhaps Decia will elighten us on “ovary bumping”. I’ve never heard of it.

Dacia, get thee some cock rings. They can be wonderful for tying up balls and isolating them for more sensitivity and playful access, plus I’d imagine some weighted down tied up swingin’ balls would feel even better on your clit. Those cheapo stretchy rings at the smut shops should work fine and shouldn’t cost more than $3 or so. But, if you and your guy get more into this, look into donuts, ball seperators, or (for the daring) ball stretchers. A nice massage with moisturizer, baby oil, or some other moisturizing lube will feel amazing when the balls are tied up, for both of you.

Or, you could always book time with me for some interactive demonstration. ;-) -T

PS: For those reading with no knowledge of cock rings, do a little research before using them, as they can do damage if left on too long.

I love my balls being played with, licked, fondled, scotal skin pulled (gently). When I had a vasectomy I had the terribly unpleasant (in my opinion) task of shaving thee balls. First, cut the long hair off with some scissors as gently as possible. Started off with mens’s Track 3 razor, but could tell this was going to be a total slaughter job if I kept going with that. Would definitely highly recommend what another poster has suggested: Ladies Venus shaver. Much easier on the old nad skin. Worked like a charm. No problem. Definitely use some kind of shaving gel or cream though. :-) Happy ball shaving! Balls are FUN :-)

I love to have my shaved balls handled by my lovers. No need to be too gentle with my low-hangers as I am not looking to be tickled but firmly massaged. I shave my balls about twice a week using shaving gel and my regular razor. I wish more women were aware of the erotic possibilities of a man’s balls.

I too like my balls and shave them. I like to tie them in their sack sometines when I fuck my woman.Ilike to feel them against her thighs.Sometimes its nice to feel a little pain with them. My balls are very sensual.

well. i dont know where to start. i guess im a freak of nature, cause no one here has said anything akin to my situation (but i kinda suspected that about me…)

i have low hanging balls. they can take a lot of abuse… meaning that they are not sensitive, so i dont get hurt easily.

i shave my balls regularly, and frankly i dont care what sort of razor it is. i never use shaving cream; i just do it dry, and i’ve never cut them.

sometimes i dont cum easily, but gimme a person who has the right touch, and have him or her grab my balls, and thats a good thing. even better is when they push their mouth up against them… grinding their face into my nutsack drives me crazy.

and, lest you think i cant join the circus… well, i can. my circus trick is this:

i can fuck with my balls. in your pussy, in your ass, it don’t matter… i can shove em in there, and its fuckin’ fantastic. when my cock goes in too, it creates a seal where nothin’s slippin out. you know, if a dick is inside you, well- all it has to do is pull back far enuf, and its out. but with the whole package inside- shit. life doesnt get much better than that.

think of the pussy (or asshole) as a human cock ring, and you’ll get the idea. if i am fucking you with all of it, when i go to pull back, well… i stay inside. i have never fucked a single person like this who didnt freak out as i pulled back. (freak out in a good way, i mean).

i said life doesnt get much better than that, but there is one other thing that eclipses it. i mean, we all love ourselves best, right? (marcus grins here)…

i was playing with a guy on tina one night (gross, despicable drug- stay away, you have been warned, i mean it ,that fuckin shit is AWFUL) but anyway, he (in his crystal mode) suggested i try this… i took my low hanging balls and (with his help) put them INSIDE MY OWN ASSHOLE.
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…unless you want to hear about my other circus trick, with my buddy john. never even HEARD of anyone doing it before, let alone saw it. ach- you should just email me for that one.

anyway, thanks, dacia, for a rockin site. i hope to meet you in person someday; i do have plans to be at several of jeffersons parties this summah… but i heard from madeline that you are gonna be hanging with the dykes this summer?

I have a fetish yet to be addressed here. When I masterbate I usually tie my balls up with rubber bands (preferably) really tight and right when I cum, I squeeze my balls through the extremely tight rubbger bands to see if I csn overcome the pleasurable feeling of cumming with pain. I feel a little pain when the cumming senastion subsides but not bad at all. I also, whiel cumming, strike my balls with something like a remote or book but no pain. mind you, if I did this anytime except when cumming, it would be excruciatingly painful. I am looking for new ways to challenge my balls more.