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It's only natural
October 03, 2004
This afternoon I did a spontaneous and awesome thing - I abandoned my homework and went into Manhattan to meet up with Topaz, the Kinky Librarian. It was, in a word, awesome.
We met up at (where else?) Toys in Babeland. This seemed like a natural meeting place to us, and so we got acquainted while shopping for sex toys. Maybe “get acquainted” isn’t the right phrase, since we’ve been emailing and reading each other’s blogs for a while now. After some sex toy shopping debate, I settled on a new buttplug, because I can’t seem to get enough of odd-shaped things to stick up my ass.
But anyway, less about my ass, and more about the afternoon with Topaz. We talked a lot about sex and relationships but also shared a lot about our StraightWorld jobs, which was cool. Not much to my surprise (or hers, I suspect), we have more in common than our penchant for fuckery - we also both are obsessive about books and research and whatnot.
The whole afternoon just felt nice and relaxed and good. Because we already know all the dirt about one another, it was easy to just fall into conversation, tell funny stories about ourselves, laugh and have a good time. I mean, it isn’t that it’s supremely difficult for me to get comfortable with people, but this was just a different level of knowing comfort.
In my humble opinion, people who are sexually deviant are just the best people. They understand what it’s like to be an outcast, what it means to have to size people up for their level of tolerance, and they learn self-awareness and communication really damn well. And when we get together - look out! Discovering a like mind is such a lovely thing.
Posted by Dacia at October 3, 2004 10:01 PM
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