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Thinking about orgies
January 30, 2005
After my last posts (part 1, part 2) about Jefferson’s biweekly bisexual orgy, one of my readers asked if I’d write a little somethin’ somethin’ about how I think about orgies, what makes them awesome for me (other than the giving and getting of orgasms), et cetera.
I know this sounds ridiculous to people whose lives are very different than mine, but these biweekly orgies are part of a kind of settling down process for me. I know that my idea of settling down is very different than other people’s, as it involves a boyfriend, a girlfriend, plans against cohabitation with either, and biweekly orgies, but that’s what seems to be working for me, so.
Over the past two years, I’ve had consistent urges for sex with new people, which means that I’m almost always on the prowl, looking for my next victim. It’s not so much a matter of notches in my bed post - its been a few years since I knew the exact number of people I’ve fucked. Rather, it’s the sense of discovery I love – I love finding out how people’s bodies work, how they contort when they come and what they can do to me.
In some ways, doing sex work satisfies this curiosity and considerably diminishes the desire for new (unpaid) adventures. But of course I still get the itch to explore. The sex parties have become a really great outlet for this, plus they appeal to my desire to have my life be well-scheduled. Every two weeks, I know that I will get my fix: I will fuck strangers and watch strangers fuck.
Of course the thing is, it’s not a new batch of complete strangers every time, and there are people I’ve had sex with more than once, so there is a familiarity mixed into the strangeness of it all. After fucking one of Jefferson’s friends, Todd, a few times I actually had the opportunity to sit and talk with him and I realized that he was pretty fun to talk to. Later Jefferson asked if I’d be interested in going on a date with Todd outside of the sex party – and I realized that it just wouldn’t work. When would I schedule Todd into my life? And more than that, what happens when he becomes my ex? I already deal with the presence of one ex at Jefferson’s parties, and I really don’t need another, thanks. My relationship with Todd is just fine as it is.
So sex parties are appealing to me because they create a controlled setting for fucking strangers, where I basically have to show up, be hot, chat and fuck. Much less work than prowling around online or in bars, because Jefferson has already done the prowling. But I don’t just go to sex parties because of the convenience of the shopping experience – I go because group sex is majorly a part of my sexuality. Group sex is not just something I had on a list of “things to try before I die” – it’s actually something that I want as a regular part of my sexual diet.
Posted by Dacia at January 30, 2005 02:47 PM
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