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On pleasure
March 22, 2005
I’ve been meaning to write this post for a while, but just didn’t have the energy and whatnot.
After I put up my post a few weeks ago about the last Jefferson party (also known as the last time I got laid – for fuck’s sake), this was one of the comments left on the post: “This post is great but it tells little of your own pleasure in the matter. Could you please elaborate?”
The comment got me thinking (oh no, not that again!) about the dimensions of pleasure. Before I can begin to elaborate on the pleasure of say, sucking cock or strap-on fucking a man in the ass, it’s pretty necessary to get to the core of what the commenter meant by pleasure.
Reading between the lines of this comment, I assume that the commenter is concerned about the extent to which I was getting orgasmic pleasure. For me pleasure in sex is about more than just me coming (hey, real life partners – I hear you laughing! I know I’m demanding, but I’m giving too!). There are lots of ways I get pleasure from fucking – and sometimes that pleasure is in the giving, or in the hands-off watching.
That said, I do think I reflected my own pleasure pretty well in the post in question – especially if you consider pleasure to be satisfaction in a causing others to go wide eyed (and wide-assed!) with pleasure. It’s true that I did spend most of the post writing about the ass-fucking and the hot boy-on-boy action, but there were also many of my own orgasms in the evening. I just chose to write about the other stuff because I was really excited about it – because, ya know, it was pleasurable.
Posted by Dacia at March 22, 2005 01:01 AM
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