Comments on: Notes on Chicago and Activism

By: Amanda

Amanda — Sun, 27 Jul 2008 15:26:05 +0000

Good point about activist self-care. There was a huge need for it this year. Problem is, where would we get it from? At least you’ve pinpointed the problem and put a name to what I think was bugging a lot of people this year.

By: Hella Estella

Hella Estella — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 00:55:46 +0000

I think that a lot of activist get caught up in a self perception of autism, and force themselves forward without a lot of self-care. I’ve realized recently after the pretty nasty reaction to an article I recently published that I seriously need to take a break. Unfortunately it took several hysterical crying episodes before that sank in.

By: Being Amber Rhea » Blog Archive » links for 2008-07-25

Being Amber Rhea » Blog Archive » links for 2008-07-25 — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 23:34:30 +0000

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By: RenegadeEvolution

RenegadeEvolution — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 15:43:11 +0000

you make a really valid point…so many folk there seemed in some way or another to be ill, or run down, or just fried..and in other cases, burned out.

By: Alex Steed [of Make Something Happen]

Alex Steed [of Make Something Happen] — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 12:50:49 +0000

@Audacia Ray: Thanks so much for your answer.

@SerpentLibertine: I am really interested in the planning burnout factor/making it worthwhile to goers. I just wrote a long post about contrasting the perceived hardship of opting-in to an issue, meeting, or cause. I’d be interesting in your feedback and hearing more about the experience.

By: SerpentLibertine

SerpentLibertine — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 20:14:53 +0000

Yeah, I agree about activism being work. That’s why a lot of us who organized this conference are burned out from the planning process. Unfortunately, activism doesn’t pay, which is probably why it’s so difficult to get other sex workers involved in it. I have to find a way to make it worthwhile to them, whether it be as simple as telling them they’ll have a community of other sex workers they can lean on for support. Sometimes that’s really all it is.

I do spend a lot of time lending support to other sex workers without getting much of that reciprocated. There was a lot of fallout ( it terms of personal relationships) among the organizational leaders of Desiree board during the planning process, most like due to people not getting the emotional support they needed when they needed it. We spent a large portion of Sunday trying to work through these issues, but I do also think this is the nature of activism. I know it really sucks to say it, but you have to be prepared to get shit on, and be prepared to clean yourself up. I think we’ll have more support once we build a bigger and stronger movement, but for right now things are going to be a little rough.

By: Audacia Ray

Audacia Ray — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 15:16:10 +0000

@Alex Steed I think we’re actually using the web in pretty effective ways, and there’s definitely a network of sex worker bloggers and allies. Being in a physical space together really shakes things up though – and that’s where the most help and support is needed. Plus, though many of the people present are actively online, others aren’t, and that shouldn’t be a basic requirement for being involved and getting support.

@Claudine The leap to trusting allies and allied organizations really needs to happen before we can reach out and get real support I think. But I think you’re right that it’s out there, it’s just a matter of finding the right folks.

By: Claudine

Claudine — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 14:29:55 +0000

I totally hear you on sustainability, self-care and getting assistance to build effective nonprofits/organizations. In many ways I’ve really benefited from places that help nonprofits and political movements. Like the SPIN Project I know is definitely supportive and so helpful, many cities have a Donor’s Forum that help with proposal writing, free accounting assistance too.

Some places are not so helpful when they realize we’re not into “rescuing” people and that includes many foundation sources. Young Women’s Empowerment Project was turned down repeatedly for nonprofit status from Illinois state gov because they thought we were an escort service (since we were giving cash stipends to youth for their work and supported youth still involved).

But we built in a lot of self-care and structure into the organization to address that struggles that we face as activists and staff of a project. Conferences can be great to get an assessment of things, but it sounds like a lot of groundwork is needed outside of all that.

By: Alex Steed [of Make Something Happen]

Alex Steed [of Make Something Happen] — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 14:01:49 +0000

This is an absolutely fascinating issue. It seems like it is equal parts organization/activism and then combating stigma. Perhaps a blog-network of sex workers might be helpful? Or video testimonials? Have you considered ways in which activists could use the web to confront each element of the issue?